Founder of VirWave. 2x TEDx speaker. Neurodivergent — building what I couldn't find.
rebuilding in public.
I'm neurodivergent. I've been in systems that couldn't read me and called it my failure.
That's where VirWave came from. That's where most of my work comes from. I stopped waiting for better systems to exist and started building them.
also: 18-minute TEDx talks & five named AI agents.
The work, told honestly.
A living portrait of who you are in relationship — built from how you actually feel, not how you test. Seven archetypes. Emotional wavelengths. A system that grows more accurate over time.
my love letter to nervous systems.Two talks: Credibility is Regulated and The Myth of CALM — both arguing that emotional regulation isn't a personal skill. It's infrastructure.
Board member. Advocacy and systems reform focused on institutional accountability and child safety — the kind of work that doesn't end, only gets sharper.
the one I keep fighting for.Regulation panel contributor. Screens are nervous systems too — the work is about making sure the ones kids grow up inside are built to know that.
because screens are nervous systems too.Organisations, events, and collaborations.
Let's build systems for humanity.
If I cry, I am unstable. If I don't cry, it didn't happen.
If I love working, I don't like being a mom. If I don't work, I can't put food on the table.
Dispatches from real life. Updated most months.
The fact that emotional regulation is still treated as a personal failing when it's a systems design problem. I said it on stage at TEDxUCL. I'll keep saying it until the systems change.
Modern systems are built for a fictional human — rational, calm, consistent, cognitively available on demand. That human doesn't exist. I have the data. And the talk.
The Mentalist.
Current obsession: Moldy Muffin.
The parts I usually leave out of the bio.
London, mostly. Alive, always.
Speaking · partnerships · research · letters about nothing in particular.